In Fairness to Healthcare Professionals“All I know is that my life is better when I assume that people are doing their best. It keeps me out of judgment and lets me focus on what...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Tips on Dealing With Memory LossMemory loss is not only for those suffering from brain injuries, diseases that affect the brain, or old age. Many different factors can cause short or long-term memory loss. For...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
My Upcoming Birthday and Survivor's GuiltSomething that I think can be really weird while being a full-time cancerland resident is birthdays. I have another one coming up next month, and honestly, the whole concept is...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
A is for AnxietyYou've just been diagnosed with breast cancer. You're scared, you're anxious, and you don't know what to do next. This is a common feeling for many cancer patients, and it's...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
The Good Intentions of Others“The road to hell is paved with good intentions,” or so the saying goes. That's a little rough, but the meaning is clear. On their own, good intentions are fine;...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Back to School, Parenting with MBCWhen I was diagnosed with Stage IV Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) in 2017, my boys were 2 and 4 and they attended a Montessori pre-school. We were just getting into...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
The Fallible Caregiver Series: Seeking Outside HelpI had a mental image yesterday of how I feel in life. I pictured a piece of twine rope frayed at both ends. I wasn’t even thinking about anything, in...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
I Refuse to Beat Myself UpI have been without health insurance, off and on, for all of my adulthood. I’ve never had breast screenings on a regular basis because of this. In fact, I detected...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Parenting Toddlers with MBCKate shares her experience of parenting her 3 children as toddlers when she was first diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. With it being a unique challenge in motherhood, she has...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
Accept the Unexpected, Part 2In the first part of this article, I shared how stage 1 breast cancer had invaded my life at 23 (2011). After doing a double mastectomy, reconstruction surgery, chemo, and...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
A Day at the ClinicOkay, so everyone’s favorite day is the day spent at the cancer clinic, right? Definitely NOT right! It’s never a fun and exciting time. However, it is necessary for treatment...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Takeaways from ASCO, 2022The American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO) had its annual meeting during the first weekend in June 2022, and there was a lot of information and data shared that pertains...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
The Next ChapterIt's been said that we all have a chapter that we don't read out loud. But what happens when people try to make you read that chapter--not only out loud--but...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
What Do You Do When Treatments Deplete All Your Energy?Chemo treatments come with a whole host of side effects, such as brain fog, bone pain, headaches, heart palpitations, etc. It can be tough to navigate through most of them...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
Conflicting Emotions are NormalShe breezed into the house, shrugging off her backpack and setting down her cappuccino. We'd known each other for a number of years but hadn't clicked as friends. She was...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
The Fallible Caregiver Series: Helping Her Stay ConnectedI think one of the most dominant feelings for those in Cancerland is feeling alone. At least it is for us. There are different types of “aloneness,” but here, I’m...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
How to Manage Radiation BurnsRadiation therapy is a powerful tool that can help fight cancer. More than 70 percent of people with cancer are treated with radiation at some point. Radiation therapy works by...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
My Me Too Moment at the Cancer ClinicContent Note: This article describes sexual abuse. If you or a loved one are struggling, consider reading our mental health resources page. Unfortunately, I never thought I would have to...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
A Breast Cancer Manifesto for MenAlthough around one percent of new cases diagnosed are males, going through breast cancer treatment affects people regardless of their gender. Therefore, patient advocates for men with this disease are...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
The More You KnowI knew nothing about Stage IV metastatic breast cancer (MBC) prior to my de novo diagnosis. Heck, I didn’t know much about any stage of breast cancer. In fact, I...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments