My Morning Routine After Breast Cancer
My mornings before I had breast cancer were quite different than they are today. I would wake up very early around 5 or 5:30 am, while it was still dark out, and immediately make coffee. From the moment I woke up, I would already feel stressed and anxious about everything I had to do that day. I would rush from one thing to the next, never allowing myself to slow down, thinking I would be a failure if I did.
Running on caffeine, running on empty
I was raised to believe that being successful meant you had to work very, very hard and that you always had to be exhausted. So, I did just that. I made sure I pushed myself to keep going and work as hard as I possibly could, even waking up a whole hour before I really had to wake up. I lived this way, running on adrenaline and caffeine for all my adult life, until the day when my life would change forever in September 2019. I got a call from my doctor that a routine biopsy revealed that I had breast cancer. My whole life stopped at that moment, and I knew that I had to make many changes in order to heal.
My perspective changed, so did my routine
One of the first changes I made was my morning routine. I was tired, in fact, I had been tired for years, but I never allowed myself the time to rest. I had put so much pressure on myself just to keep going, no matter what, that I don’t think I even knew how to properly rest. After my diagnosis, I craved more quiet and more downtime, so I decided to take it and build it into my day to make sure that I was making time for it.
For me, a 5am wake up just didn't make sense
My morning routine needed a makeover, and this was the perfect opportunity for me to do just that. I started by allowing myself to sleep later and took the pressure off to be awake at 5 am because I thought that was what “successful” people did. This was a game-changer for me and made me more relaxed overall.
I bought a calendar in book form and kept it on my nightstand. Each morning, as soon as I wake up, the first thing I do is reach for it, find the date, and write three things I am grateful for. This practice has completely transformed my life, and one of the absolute best parts of this is I can go back and see even on my hardest days, I still had things to be grateful for. This set the tone of the day and gave me a real boost!
A rejuvenating morning hydration
I now drink hot water with the juice of one lemon each morning before I drink anything else. This has helped me kick my caffeine dependency and decreased my overall anxiety. I was always so worried I would feel tired or unable to “wake up” without my coffee, and the complete opposite is true! I now drink coffee only when I feel like it occasionally and more socially than anything else. I feel better all-around, and I believe that starting my day with hydration instead of dehydration is a huge part of the reason.
By slowing down, I could accomplish much more than I used to each day. This was the most surprising part to me. I stopped pushing myself and putting so much pressure on myself and just slowed down. The impact these changes have made in my life is just incredible.
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