Coping with fears related to being mom with MBC
I was diagnosed with recurrence of breast cancer 4/24. I am stage 4 with bone Mets. I receive Enhertu and Zometa infusions. I am also going through a divorce and leaving an emotional, verbal and financial abusive spouse. I found an apartment for myself that I will move into in next 2 weeks. I have a 10 y/o son who is my heart. I yearn to do things and go places with him while I’m stable and independent. I cry every day when thoughts of not being there for him overwhelm me. I am working with a therapist to find ways to cope with my anticipatory grief. I have to focus on the now, not the unknown future. I’m trying to make yoga and meditation a habit, not a “if I feel up to it” talking to my therapist and close friends so helpful too.
my heart goes out to you. <3 You have gone through so much. I truly hope you know we care and are here to support you in any way possible. Hoping your upcoming move goes as smoothly as possible. I am so glad to hear you have a therapist that is helping you through this. How are you doing with incorporating yoga and meditation? I shared an article that I thought may be of interest - https://advancedbreastcancer.net/living/exercise-movement. I also shared a guided meditation we have - https://advancedbreastcancer.net/video/guided-meditation. Sending so many positive vibes and hugs your way. Please reach out anytime. Again, we are here. -Jessica (Team Member) I’m sorry I took so long to respond and thank you for your kind words and support. I have not yet tried the resources you sent only because life has been so challenging, and robbing me me of all energy. I do realize though, that if you don’t make the time to recharge and practice self care, life will always be a struggle. I hope you don’t mind if I consider you a friend. I don’t have family support, and though I have close friend scattered far away from me, I have felt so isolated and in need of someone who can understand the fear and grief that can overwhelm us at times.
How are you doing? Are you in treatment? What brings you happiness? My thoughts are with you.
AmyHi, Amy <3 - you had so much going on at once that it is no wonder you couldn't respond. How are you and your son doing today? Are you settled into your new place and safe?
I'm so sorry to hear that you don't have family support. You can count everyone here in this wonderful community as part of your support team. If you are ever feeling down, alone or isolated, please don't hesitate to reach out. We're always here to talk. - Warmly, Donna (Team Member)
