My teenage daughter seems to lack empathy for me these days; any advice?
I have been feeling really defeated with one of my teens lately. She has only known me to have cancer basically her whole life. Lately, she just seems to lack any empathy for me. It's even harder on days that I don't feel good and she just refuses to be understanding.
Anyone else out there with teens that can help shed some light?
My daughter is 36 and will pass off anything I need onto someone else and feel good that she got my needs met. Most the time I feel I’m an imposition. Her time spent with me is never more than 20 minutes, there’s always something that needs more attention.
My heart is going out to you reading this, Pam. I can't imagine how much that must hurt your heart, especially from your daughter. If I may ask, have you had a conversation together where you shared that feeling? Do you think that is something that would go over well if you did have it? I wanted to say something else - It’s completely understandable to feel that way, but please know that you are not an imposition at all. Your needs and feelings are important and valid, and they deserve to be met. I'm so sorry that someone you love might make you feel otherwise. Please know that here in this community, you have our full support, Pam, and we will do our best to be there for you emotionally every time you need it. 💙 Kayleigh, Team Member
