Evolving into an Advocate

For years, I've lived with a lump in my left armpit, unaware of the life-threatening storm brewing within. As a culinary specialist on Maui, I've enjoyed spending time with my loved ones – my daughter, grandchildren, and the man that blessed my world, my son-in-law. But in 2014, I finally sought answers.

Receiving my diagnosis

The diagnosis shook my world; Male Breast Cancer. An extremely rare disease affecting only 1 in 726 men. I underwent months of chemotherapy and radiation, followed by a daily regimen of Tamoxifen and Ibrance cancer meds. Despite the grueling treatment, I faced a crossroads – hesitant to undergo surgery. Encouraged by family and friends, I changed my mind and opted for surgery with Dr. Tokin at Pali Momi Medical Center on Oahu, HI.

Finding strength in family

Afterward, I thanked Dr. Tokin, saying, "Thanks, doc, for not letting me pull the chicken out card." During my recovery at Hope Lodge, I shared my story with fellow patients and families. "Cancer tears you apart, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually," said Christabelle, my sister and caregiver. I echoed her sentiments: "Everything is so peaceful here; there's zero stress."

On a side note, I believe not only the cancer patient has cancer, but the entire family has it too! My sister played a pivotal role not only as a caregiver but a strong supporter, my saving grace to not give up!

In my sister's humble words: "It was really an Honor and a Privilege to have walk alongside her brother." She continues that it was also an "Honor and Privilege to hear other clients share their stories.

Transforming into an advocate

I will never forget what that place did for my soul and the many people I've met in this journey. Hope's lodge is like a Lighthouse for all walks of people. A safe haven to find some kind of peace inside all the chaos.

My journey transformed me into an advocate for Male Breast Cancer awareness. It's no longer just about my sister and me; it's about helping others. Hope Lodge had opened my eyes to a broader purpose. With renewed determination, I left Hope Lodge to share my story on a global stage. "Kuleana" – a Hawaiian term emphasizing responsibility and stewardship. My reason to spread awareness and support to others facing similar struggles.