My Breast Cancer Journey

My journey with breast cancer began in December of 2016. During my monthly breast self-exam, I found a lump in my left breast which at first I thought was a bruise. I mentioned it to my nurse friend who advised me to get it checked out immediately.

When I got the news

After a mammogram, CT scan, and biopsy, I got the horrible news. I had breast cancer. After a referral to a wonderful breast cancer surgeon, I had a partial mastectomy. They removed my left breast and several lymph nodes. I now have a lump of scar tissue on the left side. That was followed by months of radiation. Finally, in June of 2017, I was declared cancer-free!

It all changed with my lower back pain

Five years later, during a CT scan for my chronic lower back pain, they saw something in my lungs they didn't like. So, in January of 2023, after numerous tests and biopsies on both lungs, the results came back. It was positive for breast cancer, metastasized to my lungs. It was no longer in my breasts. That moment has changed my life in so many ways, some really hard and very difficult. And because of decisions made as a result of this diagnosis, my life is full of incredible love and joy.

This time is very different

The first time was about "getting rid" of the cancer. This time, there is no "getting rid " of it. There is no cure, no surgery, no radiation. The first time, I was willing to do everything but chemotherapy. This time, my only option is chemotherapy, with the hope of shrinking tumors and keeping them from spreading. On January 17, 2023, my whole life became about learning to live with Metastatic Breast Cancer. I was referred to a very caring oncology practice and a wonderful oncologist. I feel like I'm in very good hands.

My current medication protocol

I am currently taking Ibrance, an oral chemo I take for 21 days, with a week to recover, as well as getting Faslodex shots in each butt cheek once a month. I'm currently on Round 23 of my treatment. My side effects are the same as chemo infusions, they just come on slower. My nurse practitioner says I'm not fighting cancer, as someone loses in a fight. I'm learning to live with a chronic illness. So that's what I'm doing. We're trying to reduce my stress. It's not easy at the most stressful time of my life. I'm trying to eat healthier, sleep better and get my exercise.

Making changes

I've moved closer to my 2 adult sons and 4 precious grandchildren. They are my joy and they are the reason I keep putting one foot in front of the other. Cancer is expensive. The extra costs involved add a lot of stress to my life. I am 100% disabled and my only income is SSDI. It's hard to ask for help. As a single mom, I'm used to being the one who takes care of everyone else. Now my adult sons help take care of me. I'm so blessed to have them.

One day at a time, one foot in front of the other I'm learning to live with Metastatic Breast Cancer.