Where Do I Start? How to Share Your Story
"I want to share my story but don't know how to start."
If this sounds like you, you're not alone. I've heard people say this quite often in the advanced breast community. Getting started can be the hardest part. Especially if this is the first time you've ever shared your advanced breast story.
Sharing your advanced breast cancer story can be scary at first
It can be scary to think about sharing all of a sudden. You might wonder how others will respond, or if they will respond at all. Or worried that nobody wants to hear what you have to say.
I can assure you that isn't true. I read every story that gets submitted to AdvancedBreastCancer.net. Each and every story has a tremendous impact and helps raise awareness for the challenges of living with and caring for advanced breast cancer. You never know who will read your story, and how they might be able to relate.
After finally taking the leap, many people will say that they can't believe they waited so long to share their story. Some will even say that sharing their advanced breast cancer story is one of the best things they've ever done.
Ready to share?
I've gathered the components that make up many advanced breast cancer stories and outlined some pointers to walk you through sharing your story. While there isn't a single format or structure for a story, I hope these help you with sharing yours, whenever you are ready of course. Let's get started!
First, introduce yourself
Start with a short introduction about yourself. Remember your audience does not know who you are, so include relevant aspects about your background or interests. How long have you been living with advanced breast cancer symptoms? When did you know that something was wrong? If you've been diagnosed, share about that experience, and how you were feeling about it.
Share about your treatment path
Many people will share about what treatments they have done. They talk about their visits to the doctors, and what they are learning about advanced breast cancer. What type of treatment are you on? How has that been going? What have been the most difficult side effects for you?
Conclude with how you are doing today
The end portion of the story usually includes a reflection or an update on how they are doing. How have things been going? What mental and emotional hurdles are you facing? Have you found support online or in person?
Don't forget to make it personal
No two stories are the same. Be sure to incorporate some personal touches to make your story unique to you. Whether it's your raw emotions, sense of humor, or writing your stories like a poem or song, your story can be as unique as you are.
I look forward to reading your story!
-Laura (AdvancedBreastCancer.net Team Member)
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